Sleep

The Most Underrated Form of Self-Care

Shani Lowe, MD

4/15/20253 min read

We live in a world that glorifies hustle and grind, where sleep is often treated like a luxury or an afterthought. But here’s the truth: sleep is one of the most powerful and underrated forms of self-care and healing—and it’s completely free.

Getting adequate, quality sleep is foundational to our physical, emotional, and mental well-being. It’s not just about feeling rested. Sleep affects your mood, stress levels, focus, weight, hormones, immune system, and even how your brain and muscles repair overnight.

Let’s dive into why prioritizing sleep is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself.

The Science-Backed Benefits of Sleep

Numerous studies confirm that getting enough sleep (7–9 hours for most adults) leads to:

  • Improved mood and emotional regulation – Sleep deprivation is linked to increased anxiety, depression, and irritability.

  • Reduced stress levels – Sleep lowers cortisol (your stress hormone), allowing your body to reset and restore.

  • Sharper memory, clarity, and focus – Your brain consolidates memories and clears out waste during deep sleep.

  • Better weight management – Lack of sleep disrupts hunger hormones (ghrelin and leptin), increasing cravings.

  • Stronger immune system – While you sleep, your body produces infection-fighting cytokines and immune cells.

  • Muscle repair and recovery – Growth hormone is released during sleep, aiding the musculoskeletal system.

  • Balanced blood sugar and cardiovascular health – Poor sleep is linked to insulin resistance, hypertension, and heart disease.

Sleep is not a luxury—it’s a biological necessity. Skimping on it robs you of energy, clarity, and vitality.

So, How Much Sleep Do You Need?

For most adults, the sweet spot is 7 to 9 hours of quality sleep each night. Children and teens need even more. It’s not just the amount of sleep that matter, but the depth and consistency of it.

What Does Good Sleep Hygiene Look Like?

Sleep hygiene refers to the habits and practices that support quality rest. Here are powerful do’s and don’ts to help you sleep more soundly and wake up feeling restored:

✅ What to Do for Better Sleep:

  • Finish eating at least 3 hours before bed – Digestion can interfere with deep sleep.

  • Take a hot shower or bath – Helps lower your core temperature post-bath, which signals your body to sleep.

  • Journal before bed – Clear your mind of racing thoughts by putting them on paper.

  • Practice meditation or deep breathing – Calms the nervous system and signals safety to the brain.

  • Use relaxing scents like lavender or chamomile – Aromatherapy can help signal restfulness.

  • Try smudging or calming rituals – Clearing your space can energetically prepare your body and mind for rest.

  • Supplement with magnesium (if cleared by a health professional) – Known to support muscle relaxation and sleep.

❌ What to Avoid:

  • Bright lights and screens – Blue light from phones and TVs suppresses melatonin, the sleep hormone.

  • Stimulating activity right before bed – Intense exercise or heavy emotional conversations can delay rest.

  • Avoid alcohol – While it may make you drowsy, it fragments your sleep and reduces REM.

  • Avoid caffeine intake after 2 PM – It stays in your system for hours and can disrupt your natural wind-down.

  • Inconsistent sleep schedule – Going to bed and waking up at different times confuses your internal clock.

Sleep as a Daily Reset Button

When you prioritize sleep, you’re not being lazy—you’re choosing alignment, balance, and longevity. Every night offers your body and mind the opportunity to reset, repair, and rise stronger the next day.

Don’t underestimate the power of a solid night’s rest. It’s not only essential—it’s transformative. And the best part? It’s a form of self-care that costs you nothing but time and intention.

Your Invitation

Tonight, give yourself the permission to wind down with purpose. Start a ritual. Light a candle. Unplug. Honor your body’s need to rest—not just so you can “do more” tomorrow, but because you are worthy of restoration today.

Let sleep be the medicine that fuels your clarity, strength, and peace. You deserve that.

Be Well,